more to give

In certain traditions the essence of mature masculinity is service.  In simpler words, to be a man is to serve.  I like this.  A quick review of the world’s most transformative figures supports the idea that men who give themselves to a cause not only change the world for the better but also inspire others [...]

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how to not suck at life (and school)

Lots of people suck at life.  People in our society are stressed to the point of dysfunction and often scrambling to keep shit together on a basic level.  With some intention and awareness this doesn’t have to be the case.  Much of my work has been working with kids and families in crisis, and in [...]

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invitation to speak at upcoming men’s summit

In a couple weeks I’ll be a part of a teleconference panel discussion entitled “What Young Men Need to Grow Up — and Why They Rarely Get It”. Details to follow…here’s the link to the summit. http://ultimatemenssummit.com/  

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the blueprint: heart, brains, and balls

A man’s heart tells him what to do, his brain tells him how to do it, and his balls cut down the fear and obstacles that get in his way.  This is my simplest blueprint for what it takes to be a man who makes a positive impact on those around him.  A balanced man [...]

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adolescents-the world’s best bs detectors

Young men in our culture are missing authenticity, experience, and guidance.  They are screaming for it, sometimes out loud but often silently and unconsciously.  I meet a kid that’s struggling and most people see an asshole that is stealing, hurting his loved ones, and generally messing up his life.  What I see is a scared [...]

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